When last did you make a decision that was simply and completely yours?
I’m Evelyn Alessandri. Author, Speaker. Workshop Facilitator. I help women take back the wheel of their own lives. Not perfectly. Not fearlessly. But consciously and entirely on their own terms.
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A note from Evelyn
For the steady ones who carry more than others see
If you are here, I imagine something brought you to a pause.
Maybe it is the feeling of running hard but not quite in a direction that feels like yours. Maybe it is the quiet exhaustion of being the strong one, the dependable one, the person everyone else leans on, while your own needs wait patiently in the background.
I know that feeling. I have lived it. And I have spent fifteen years sitting with women who are living it too.
What I offer is not a quick fix or a list of things to improve. It is something more honest than that, a space to stop, look around, and remember that the road you are on was always meant to be yours to choose.
Everything I share comes from lived experience. From my own storms, my own wrong turns, and the hard-won discovery that the strength you are looking for has been inside you all along.
You just need a moment to hear it again.
How I can help
Choose the path that feels right in this moment.
Soul Coaching
Workshops & Retreats
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Taking the Wheel Book
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A note from Evelyn
For the steady ones who carry more than others see
If you’re here, I imagine you’re one of life’s steady ones, the strong, the dependable, the quiet heart who holds space for everyone else.
I don’t offer quick fixes. I offer something gentler, something steadier — a sanctuary to breathe again, to soften, to listen, and to remember your own wisdom.
Everything I share comes from lived experience, intuition and compassion; from walking through my own storms and learning how to pause, how to ground, how to reconnect with the strength and light that never truly leaves us.
Your inner road, finally mapped
The P.A.U.S.E. Process
Are you the one driving your life right now? If not, this is where we begin.
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Pause & Breathe
Step out of the noise. Soften the body. Return to breath.
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Awareness
Notice what is here, without judgement, without rushing.
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Understand
Listen for what is asking to be seen, heard or honoured.
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Stillness & Soul Insight
In the quiet, your own wisdom rises gently to the surface.
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Empowered Next Step
Move forward with clarity, rooted in what is true for you.
THE BOOK, COMING SOON
A MEMOIR OF CHOICES, COURAGE AND CLAIMING YOUR OWN LIFE
There comes a moment in life when you realise you can’t keep driving on autopilot.
Maybe something unexpected happens.
Maybe something breaks.
Or maybe, quietly and without drama, you recognise that the life you’re living no longer feels like your own.
Taking the Wheel is a deeply personal and powerful journey through those moments.
Through honest storytelling, Evelyn shares her path through love, loss, motherhood, identity, illness, and healing, and the quiet, often difficult decisions that changed everything.
This is not a story about having all the answers.
It’s about learning to pause long enough to hear your own.
THE JOURNEY
Workshops & Retreats
Step away from the noise. Find stillness, and return to what truly matters.
Kind words
From beautiful souls who’ve walked beside me.
“These cards are just gorgeous! Together with Evelyn's Gratitude Journal, they rewire my brain and my approach to the day. Love them!”
“Evelyn's open embrace as we entered the room spoke volumes. I felt welcome, the space was open to being authentic. The whole retreat flowed with knowledge and wisdom.”
“Thank you Evelyn, for facilitating a day that was very profound for me, and in such a gentle, light and safe space. It was a gift, truly.”
“Thank you Evelyn, for being your true self, sharing your intuition and wisdom. I am blessed to have you in my life.”
“Highly recommend this workshop to connect to yourself! Evelyn is living her passion and life purpose.”
“Wow, that was a super magical time. I loved every moment. Thank you Evelyn for your thoughtfulness, love, humour, and playful spirit.”
Begin
You weren’t born to drift. You were born to drive.
Take your time. Feel into what resonates. And when you’re ready, reach out. I would be honoured to walk beside you.